The history of Valentine’s Day is blurry. One of the most popular stories is that this day, also called Saint Valentine’s Day (Feast of Saint Valentine) started as a Christian feast day in honor of a martyr called “Valentine.” Regardless, of what you believe is the origin, it has become a day of high hopes.
The day is all about love but while the world is celebrating romance, others feel left out of this bubble. Every year on February 14th, couples celebrate by expressing their feelings in different ways. The expectations of the love fest can be overwhelming. In 2023, consumers spent approximately $26 billion to show how much they care. Couples book the most romantic restaurants and buy flowers, chocolate, perfume, or any gift that will melt the hearts of a significant other. Prices peak, helping vendors make a fortune from this love fest.
But, not everyone is part of a duo and that’s OK. It doesn’t mean we should leave ourselves out. This gift guide is dedicated to the awakened woman – single or attached. This woman embraces every part of herself. She is self-aware and loves and takes care of her mind, body, soul, and spirit.
Love starts with yourself. Kindness, respect, and caring for your growth and wellness are some of the things that encompass self-love. If you incorporate these practices into your every day, it can help create a foundation for an amazing life. Do things that make you feel good. Prioritize your needs. The most important relationship you will ever have is with yourself.
This Valentine’s Day, the plan is to drench myself in love. As I get older, I learn more about what brings me joy and pleasure. I love creating a cozy vibe at home, having a good cigar and scotch, and treating myself, all things that make me feel good. I wanted to share a few of my favorite finds. Hopefully, it inspires you to treat yourself this February 14th or any day of the year!
My Onyx and Volga Saffron Marigold Scarves have quickly become go-to’s this season. The handmade gems are not only rich in color. Each of their designs tells a story These silk scarves are my favorite accessory with such a fashionable collection. Whether, wearing with jeans, leather pants, or sweats, I feel luxurious! I can throw it on when I go for a brisk walk, in a meeting, or to add a touch of elegance to an outfit.
If you follow me on Instagram, you’ve probably seen me smoke a cigar. Sometimes, when the mood is right, I indulge in one with a good scotch. Why? It’s similar to the enjoyment of a good wine. The way a cigar smells, tastes, how it’s rolled, and burns and the ritual are satisfying. The smoke gives me time to reflect and just be with myself. A good cigar can also spark my masculine energy, awakening my confidence, clarity, and focus in that moment. Recently, I discovered The CEO-Panatela and The Founder-Robusto by LLC Cigars, premium authentic Dominican cigars. The brand was started by Candace Ford, who was named one of Houston’s Top 50 Entrepreneurs. The philanthropist also empowers young women through the organization, Project Beautiful Me. A cigar smoker herself started the venture to create a space in the market that caters to women. Candace is changing the game in an industry, known to be male-dominated and we are here for it!
Soft, silky skin is a must for me. I love a good scrub and Justhuman Coffee Caramel Body Scrub has it all. I love the refreshing coffee smell! Not to mention that it is cruelty-free, sulfate, and parabens-free. It leaves my skin feeling smooth and guilt-free, as I don’t have to worry about toxic chemicals.
Candles are always a staple in my home. They create an ambiance that is relaxing. The right scent can arouse part of you, bringing calm to the atmosphere. It grounds me on the worst day and puts me in a meditative state. Bright Black Candles’ Bachata has a sensual mahogany and passion fruit scent that is intoxicating! It will be the new favorite for my candle lovers. Their products have been featured on Today, Vogue, Glamour, ABC, Buzzfeed, NY Magazine, Conde Nast Traveler, Elle, Forbes, Inc., Popsugar, Self, Variety, Yahoo, and many more!
Living as an awakened is a neverending journey. We encounter many hurdles, as we become the woman we are meant to be. Sometimes, it’s good to take a beat. Pause and show yourself attention. Take today to love yourself a little more!
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