When They Cheat – We Boss Up! Big Pay Day for Vanderpump Rules’ Reality Star, Newest Cast Member, Dancing with the Stars, Ariana Madix
Bravo’s Vanderpump Rules has been monopolizing our cell phone and television screens for months, now. If you haven’t heard about the latest and greatest reality drama then you must be living under a rock. The “Scandoval” story spread like wildfire and we were here for it! Millions of fans and spectators are still trying to dissect the zig-zags of the shocking revelation that took place in the 10th season. The scandal even caught the attention of some of the most well-known news networks like NBC, CNN, and ABC News.
People can’t seem to get enough of Ariana Madix after news broke in March that her partner of nine years, Tom Sandoval was having an affair with her bestie, Raquel Leviss. Since then, the reality star has taken body revenge to new heights. She leveled up and is projected to generate serious money from dozens of opportunities resulting from the very public incident.
How is that for payback, baby? No, but seriously, she is laughing all the way to the bank.
If you’ve ever dealt with a cheater, you know what the stinger can do. Sometimes, it takes years to heal from the mental and emotional anguish caused by betrayal. It is disheartening to find out that the person you trusted most with your heart has stomped it to pieces. The lies, disrespect, and duplicity make it hard to confide in anyone, again. This type of trauma can leave partners feeling insecure and inadequate. It has the potential to damage a person’s stability, producing anxiety and depression for the one left behind to clean up the mess.
The great news is that we can come back from the devastation. However, it is crucial to deal with the ordeal that has taken place. These 3 basic steps may help get you out from under the shambles.
1. Confront pain head-on. Numbing yourself will do more harm than good. Look for healthy outlets to cope with the toxicity. Finding a release to boost endorphins is key. Try exercise, dancing, or laughter for a better effect.
2. Seek support from friends, family, and therapists, as needed. Oftentimes, we feel shame, it’s normal. This is a good time to remind you that you should never feel responsible for someone else’s actions. Do not accept culpability for his or her behavior. It will help to talk things through with loved ones. Allow yourself to cry it out or have a venting session. It does serve you to keep it all inside. Let your people love you through the pain.
3. Do not assume that you are the problem. Cheating is rarely about sex. There are different reasons that do not involve sexual satisfaction. For example, a partner’s need to please the ego, falling out of love, loneliness due to long distances, fears of commitment, variety, lack of emotional connection, boredom, tit-for-tat. Over and over again, we think it’s our behavior that causes the indiscretion. Know that you are enough and deserve better.
Millions of us have experienced infidelity at some point in our lives. Too often, we resort to food, alcohol, toxicity, and self-destructive ways to deal with the loss of the object of our affection. We don’t have to play the role of martyr, anymore. It is time to flip the switch!
Ariana turned a negative into a positive. It has been a few months since the cheating scandal almost broke the internet and the woman is on fire! She has a large following rallying behind her, as she makes big moves.
In addition to the salary from Vanderpump Rules, there is the Maloney-Madix merch line, several lucrative brands, and sponsorship deals that include BIC Razors, Bloomingdales, Uber One, Bellesa Boutique, SoFi, and Lay’s Chips. She is also part of a joint venture, sandwich restaurant Something About Her which is sure to be a hit with supporters. The latest news predicts even more dollars to hit her account. Ariana is rumored to be joining the next Dancing with the Stars and has been cast in a new Lifetime movie.
I would say that is revenge well served, no?
Certainly, I am not trying to belittle the heartache. I’ve been there and know what it feels like to have the person you love deceit you in such a way that it rips into your soul. It’s devastating but we have the ability to conquer this torment. If you are experiencing similar troubles, my hope is that her story inspires you to push forward.
You don’t have to take things lying down. Let this be a sign in your life. The mistake and the loss belong to the person that violated your trust. Believe that you are stronger than what happens to you. We’re born with the power to withstand suffering. Move forward with resolve and don’t allow yourself to be paralyzed by fear. Choose yourself.
AW celebrates women like Ariana. She is encouraging others to fight back and become empowered after heartbreak. The Bravo celebrity’s net worth stands to surpass the million-dollar mark post-breakup. Proving there is a bigger, bolder, better life after affliction brought on by cheating.
You got this!
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